
Since coming home for spring break and taking my classes online like the majority of society, I have fallen too comfortable with my surroundings. I lack the discipline to stay focused on academics. As I am holed up in my room all day, my video games, which are always less than ten feet away from me, constantly nag for attention to which I happily, yet unfortunately, oblige. Though being in these games and calls has allowed me to interact with my friends and somewhat replace that which I have lost due to the pandemic, I find myself playing unhealthily grinding away hours by myself after they have taken a break. I feel as if this deprivation of physical interaction will have some profound effect on my personality, but I don’t feel any meaningful changes as of right now. It’s a little embarrassing (and in my opinion funny) to admit that as an introvert, I don’t feel as if much has changed in regards to not leaving my house for weeks.
Moreover, I have relapsed into an inconsistent and unhealthy sleep schedule. In college, I was able to sleep early on most days, but now I end up going to bed unfathomably late with the reassurance that videos are recorded or that most of my classes aren’t synchronous and therefore I don’t need to wake up early.
I’m also still upset about the fact that I’m not able to rock climb until this thing blows over, and I’m worried my technique will regress significantly; I’m doing what I can at home to prevent this. Simple body-weight exercises and hangboarding will hopefully do the trick. I’m thankful that my friend Aaron also continues to host ab-o’clock with me and his other friends over zoom. Without such, I’d one-hundred percent have no motivation to work the core necessary for climbing.
Ultimately, I am glad that my family is healthy and safe. That’s more important to me than anything I listed above. I get to spend time with them and eat home-cooked meals, which are unmeasurably more delicious than anything the dining halls have to offer. I feel a sense of duty and accomplishment in knowing that by socially distancing myself, I am a part of this swelling force that will push the pandemic away. So yeah, perhaps I am relapsing a bit in my bad habits, but I think everything is going to work out and be fine in the end.
Everything you said about videos games hits so close to home for me– the late nights and excessive amount of hours during the day. It felt like it was something written about my own life. The first thing I did when I got home from break was buy a Live subscription, which I did not have for multiple months before this all started happening. It’s nice to hear your family is healthy, and I hope you remain motivated to stay in shape.
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Staying motivated at home has been really hard for me as well. It is so easy to slip into bad habits without the structure of being on campus. I am impressed that you have kept the motivation to stay active even though you cannot be in the gym rock climbing. It is so frustrating to not be able to do what we want with our time but at least you are making the best of it. I also agree with your sentiment about the health and safety of your family. Everything will be back to normal soon enough, and it is important to do what we can to keep our friends and family safe until that time comes.
-Danielle Hoban
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Ethan, I was intrigued by your title and immediately could relate when you were talking about going back to old habits while at home with all this time on our hands. While I am not necessarily into playing video games, I’ve inevitably been sucked into the dark vortex of tiktok! For months before this pandemic sent us into quarantine I refused to download it and jokingly made fun of all my friends who wasted so many of hours on the app. Only after a few days of being home, I downloaded it as a joke and now I am kind of obsessed…
I also appreciate you writing about your zoom workout sessions with your friend because I genuinely haven’t thought to do that yet and I definitely need a way to stay motivated to exercise regularly. I’m going to try to get some of my friends to do the same!
I hope your family continues to stay safe!
-Bel Yu
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Whoa, DUDE! That is an absolutely awesome reconstrunction of the UD green; its amazing! Perhaps its not productive in the ‘academic’ sense, but it is surely productive in the ‘I-have-an-insane-amount-of-creativity-pent-up-inside-of-me’ sense. Awesome work 🙂
I can feel the power of those “nag[ing]” video-games ripple through your writing into me. Although for me it may not be video games exactly, I am ABSOLUTELY doing the same thing my friend. As Chris says above, it really does hit close to home. The amount of times I went to bed in the early morning would make a nocturnal vampire wince.
“I’m also still upset about the fact that I’m not able to rock climb until this thing blows over” … I feel your sentiment 100%. I also was working on various crafts in my free time at UD, I can feel that pain. You’ve got that highly-flammable passion inside of you, but unfortunately for the time being, no match. That’ll change!
I absolutely love the way you describe you feel about social distancing. You definitely deserve that sense of duty and accomplishment. You’re saving lives. My dad is an emergency room doctor in the DC area, he would thank you personally if he could. I’m proud of you. So many people aren’t following those guidelines.
In you’re final paragraph, I could not agree more: “Ultimately, I am glad that my family is healthy and safe. That’s more important to me than anything I listed above.”
You’ll be back in full throttle soon.
Thank you for the great read.
Hang in there! 🙂
Sincerely,
Neil Baker
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“First of all, I can’t believe someone took so much time to make part of UD’s campus on Minecraft, but also I’m amazed by the detail (Did you find it or make it?). Secondly, I can 100% relate to the messed up sleep schedule. Knowing that most of my classes don’t start before 10:00am have definitely relaxed my typically strict sleeping habits. I’m happy to hear that your family is doing fine and I completely understand how great having a home-cooked meal is for a change. I hope you and your family continue to stay safe! :)” -Ciana Gadut
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